What is love & what is marriage ?

A student ask a teacher, "what is love?"

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the paddy
field and choose the biggest paddy and come back. But the rule is: you can
go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big
padi,but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later. Then he saw
another bigger one... but may be there is a even bigger one waiting for
him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the padi field, he start to
realise that the padi is not as big as the previous one he saw, he
know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted !!!! So, he
ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a
better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the
person...."

"What is marriage then?" the student asked.
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn
field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can
go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick." The student went
to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous
mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium
corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... you look
for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best
one you get.... this is marriage."

p/s: taken from email sent by Lee Jet.copright pending.
please do not copy this article for now coz i still asking permission from the sender.